How to calm the girl?

They say that women's tears are the strongestweapons, especially if the "enemy" is a man. A strong half of humanity is ready to do anything to not only hear sobs, sobs and not see how the tears roll from the girl's eyes. And all because of the fact that men are lost, fall into a stupor and stand aside "like a statue" at the sight of female tears. However, they want that man or not, but sometimes in life there are situations that can upset even the most sedate and calm girl. So, she starts to cry. What can I do to calm the girl down?

First of all, do not panic, do not be nervous,show the lady that her problem is not unimportant to you, hug her, touch her shoulder, kiss her. Tell her how much she means to you, shower her with compliments, and then, when the girl's emotions subside, ask her to tell in detail about the cause of the tears. Be sure to listen to the interlocutor to the end, without interrupting and sympathetically nodding during a conversation. Believe me, she will appreciate this and understand that her life, her interests and problems interest you. Perhaps she simply thought that you began to give her less time, because you do not feel the same feelings for her, in this case you need to try to prove the opposite, suggesting, for example, to go to the store together, and then cook dinner. Then your loved one will not feel so alone.

How to calm a girl if the cause of tearsis feeling unwell or sick? This will require your support and care. With a common cold, prepare a tea with raspberries, go to the pharmacy for medications, and along the way buy an interesting film that you can watch together. Only when choosing choose your taste preferences. If a girl loves comedies - it's just wonderful, because scientists have proved that laughter not only prolongs life, but, as is known, increases immunity and helps fight various diseases. If the health problem is serious, show your beloved that you believe in her strength, convince her that she can overcome all difficulties. This can be done with the help of playing moments, competitions, where it can and must win. Whether it is a "sea battle" or "monopoly", or can competition in the speed of inflating balloons.

How to calm a girl if her tears are causedthe departure from the life of a close relative? Here just do not need a lot of words and do not even try to cheer it, otherwise you can run into a fit of rage. Help in this situation can only your patience, participation and time.

If a girl has problems at work, promise her,that you will always support your loved one and help her in resolving the issues that have arisen. To raise a girl's mood, it is enough to be at least a little romantic, a noble knight of the present. Order by phone a bouquet of flowers and intrigue her with a mention of the prepared surprise. Prepare her coffee with sandwiches or sweets, and put a romantic note or flower on the saucer. It is necessary to include imagination and you can find a large number of ways of how to calm the girl and give her a good mood.

It happens that the tears on the cheeks of the beloved ariseat the time of your quarrel with her. And no matter how confident you are, remember, in any conflict, both are always to blame. Do not try to "win", because in this way you will only aggravate the situation. For a moment, step back from what is happening, calm down, do not respond to harsh statements, however difficult it may be. How to reassure a girl, if you feel that the situation is getting out of control? Try to overcome yourself and admit your own wrong, even if inside you are against it. And then you can suggest a walk together, it will help to remove the irritation and tension of your beloved.