A cynical woman is a norm or a paradox?
Time is a great architect, it canredraw people and events. What was shameful yesterday is now the norm, if not the ideal. The image of a refined bitch that goes over the heads and hearts is actively cultivated today by gloss and society. Although in fact, a cynical woman is a nonsense, an anomaly, a paradox.
A subtle feminine nature is by nature not createdfor cynicism, but for caring, love and tenderness. Many feminists can lavish about gender equality, but because women are allowed to drive piles, it's better they did not become. Against the nature and laws of the universe you can not trample, the man and the woman were initially set up for different tasks, but now someone wanted to try on someone else's burden. As you know, in the neighbor's yard and the water is wetter, and the sun is brighter. Or maybe not very much wanted to, but somehow they did not refuse on time, and it raced.
It's one thing when a cynical girl is not up to par.soul, and in a fashion. As a dress uncomfortable, but interesting cut. I tried on, painted, and threw myself on the mezzanine until old age, to remember and let her grandchildren talk about what happened. What is worse, when the cynical is from the inside. Because it's pain, it's sadness, it's broken something, so much so that it's upsetting you. As the ancient Chinese said: "The tighter the armor, the tenderer that under them." It was substituted, believed, grew ... It does not matter what, it does not matter to whom, but now the woman knows for sure that it's more so impossible - it's painful and difficult, so she became cynical. It's a protective reaction, nothing more.
Opinion of psychologists
Cynics do not come to this world. These are what life makes us, or we ourselves become similar under its wheels. The most cynical is usually a very soulful and finely organized person, although often she herself does not admit it. It would seem a paradox, is not it? However, if you understand the essence, then everything becomes logical and very understandable. There are such natures who react sharply to injustice, deceit, betrayal - that one will pass by, and another through himself.
A cynical woman is undoubtedly a solid womancharacter, giving power to see, but to resist. Often such people cause ambiguous emotions in the environment, they are envious, they are avoided, do not understand or condemn, but by and large they are interesting and uncommon, again because of internal qualities. Pragmatism, implicated in rigidity, true - in the absence of a beautiful cover for lies, indifference - in the common sense. If the mind is alive and sharp, such a man beckons and repels at the same time, remember the same Dr. House. Balance on the verge of sensitivity and undisguised truths. Many feel it, but it's so indecent to talk. You can think, slyly so, secretly from yourself, but out loud ... The mask, once worn, can grow forever. Also it would be desirable to glance for it. Curiosity, what to do. I want to turn a screaming wolf into a dog lying by the fireplace, so that here and with you everything was different, really, without games, without guises, without armor. The great Makarenko in half with Maslow lives in the hearts of the majority. And you can put this mask on yourself and look at the world from that side ...
